seriously, at what age does a girl become a dalaga (lady)???

relatives have been telling me that "uy dalaga na siya" (she's now a dalaga) whenever they would see me wearing a skirt, heels or wearing make-up.

so a dalaga would mean any girl or woman of any age who is wearing a skirt, high heels shoes and make-up a dalaga??? a 4-year old wearing skirt and a bit of make-up means she's a dalaga??? Come on!!! It's getting very very very annoying already.

"Uy dalaga na siya" response is replacing "Hi! Hello! Kamusta ka na?!"

relatives please stop as in NOW. i'm almost 31 years old and you've been telling me "uy dalaga na sya" for over 15 years now.

GRRRRRR!!!!!